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It's tough

I remember the days when all my friends had significant others and I used to plan cool couples trips for us all to destinations no one had ever heard of. Things didn't work out with me and mine but my friend's relationships went on to flourish. I'm happy that they found their happiness but seeing them enjoy those trips together can be bothersome at times. Not knowing if you'll ever get to join in or if it'll be too late, for all of those couples are now expanding their families. Its tough, life single after 30.

You may not necessarily want exactly what everyone else has but you at least want someone to call your own. Someone to come home to. Someone to start really living life with. Its tough. Experiencing life's struggles and not having someone to talk about it with at the end of your day, having to endure your grind alone. Watching the dating pool dwindle. Statistics left and right saying how the black woman is the least likely to marry among other races. Its tough. Be confident that he's out there. Remain positive and continue to cheer for others. Be thankful for each case that didn't work out for they are all stepping stones leading me to the one you will soon call you own...

Sometimes you just gotta take a chance

Don't lose faith in love

Don't lose faith in love

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